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Haha, yes. True, true. there is such a thing as finesse. Don't count that he'd get it at first though. Figuring out the right pitch depends on how well you know each other.
Personally, I prefer the girl giving the guy a rose scenario.
Guy: Uh, wow, what's this?
Girl: It's a rose. I figured that since you never gave me one I thought I'd give you one just so you know how it feels.
Guy is speechless as girl begins to walk away.
:P
3 days
And then again, you can just stop trying to figure him out. If you can take the heat, go on up and ask him. There IS, however, a tasteful way of doing that. Watch what you say so you don't lose yourself.
3 days
Be that as it may, it might help if you leave the apathy with those you love and not take it on yourself. Maybe that will help you to just keep on loving regardless of it being appreciated or not.
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This is so true.
Maybe some of you would attest to this, how sometimes our need to be with those we love, our need to be loved back, short of ego, short of obsession, prods us to do things that, when seen with a clearer head, will make us cringe in mortification.
Perhaps such is the nature of love, but of course that is no excuse to lose our heads. Love is as much an exercise in self-respect, as it is a function of passion.
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I agree with what's been said above.
i just have one more thing to add : be yourself, you can't spend a life time being something your not.
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been through this a few months ago. you have no choice actually but to accept that he's not that into you. period.
no use fretting why. you're special in your own way and someone is bound to appreciate you as you are. and despite my previous comments that most guys are pigs, i blv that when it comes to serious matters, they just dont look into the physical attributes of a girl. there is something in her that he really likes. it's just the way things are. (wow, i cant blv im saying this..lol)
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wow, mey...are you like reading my thoughts? i was just discussing the same issue with a friend an hour ago. He reminded me of the poem, "Reason, Season or Lifetime" by Brian Chalker.
And here you are talking of the same thing! lol
...unrequited love...hurts...
But you are so right. *sigh
3 days
if he likes you, he'll do anything just to have you. if he isnt doing anything but treat u as good friend, then there's no point in overanalyzing the sitution. you just gotta accept the fact and move on :D
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amen!
and it can't get any better than simple, is what I'm saying
3 days
Bough must have had one hell of a time keeping up with you. You're a slave driver Summer... hehe. Kidding! :)
3 days
liking a guy is never a guarantee that he will like you back. sad but true. and yeah, from the looks of it, he's just not into you and unfortunately, such things do not need to be justified.
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ok...
let it be known to all and sundry that here is where 'love' was first officially mentioned... hehe
goofing off... sorry :)
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maybe that guy likes the emotional type. or too much familiarity has put you in a level where you ceased to be a challenge...sometimes liking someone goes beyond the physical attributes.
or to put it bluntly, maybe he's just not into you.
there's plenty of fish in the ocean...
4 days
"I think we need these moments...but not too much."
I truly understand that, summer. I've been experiencing those moments lately. It just makes me wonder if there was something I've done wrong or if I don't mean a thing to the people I love. I just need to be acknowledged once in a while.
Is it just silence or Indifference? :=(
4 days
Maybe since you two were together for so long, the feelings for you have been platonic. Just like a love between a brother and a sister.
I have a friend since college and despite lots of guys hitting on her, I have treated her like a sister.
I don't know how to deal with this from a woman's point of view but maybe some of the ladies here can help you out on that end.
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ay.. sumobra ang space ko after the first line, nasira tuloy ang effect! ;-) di ko alam i- edit eh..newbie talaga sa comp si mey..weeeeh!
5 days
"you are your own Devil, you are your own God.
You have fashioned the paths your footsteps have trod.
And no one can save you from error or pain
until you have honored your spirit again.'
I've read this somewhere and I'm sharing my favorite lines with you.. Have a good day! ^.^
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a tickle a dey keeps the blues away...
without meaning to undermine the sentiments, mey, I hope that little stab at humor brings a little smile to your lips. try it on, at least for size. :)
please be well...
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Bough is the skip in my step... the fleeting grin... the absent thought. His is a beautiful mind trapped in a body of writhing hands and halted sentiments. His is a lost soul, at its most endearing, the dark side you will always want to forgive.
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